Tuesday, October 03, 2006

25句值得记住的话

25句值得记住的话

1、记住该记住的,忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的,接受不能改变的

2、能冲刷一切的除了眼泪,就是时间,以时间来推移感情,时间越长,冲突越淡,仿佛不断稀释的茶

3、怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物,也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分

4、智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑

5、世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主(除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外)

6、如果敌人让你生气,那说明你还没有胜他的把握

7、如果朋友让你生气,那说明你仍然在意他的友情

8、令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制,只好控制自己。”

9、我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的,那些是错的,而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事,然后等待着老死

10、也许有些人很可恶,有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候,我才知道:他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人,好人或者坏人

11、鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪,因为我在水里.水说我能感觉到你的眼泪,因为你在我心里

12、快乐要有悲伤作陪,雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨,如果忧伤之后还是忧伤.请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。 微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你

13、死亡教会人一切,如同考试之后公布的结果——虽然恍然大悟,但为时晚矣

14、你出生的时候,你哭着,周围的人笑着;你逝去的时候,你笑着,而周围的人在哭!一切都是轮回!!!! 我们都在轮回中

15、男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少,结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多

16、于千万人之中,遇见你所遇见的人;于千万年之中,时间的无涯荒野里,没有早一步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上了

17、每个人都有潜在的能量,只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖,被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨

18、人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下了什么遗憾,想笑就笑,想哭就哭,该爱的时候就去爱,无谓压抑自己

19、《和平年代》里的话:当幻想和现实面对时,总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒,要么你把痛苦踩在脚下

20、真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究噱头的

21、生命中,不断地有人离开或进入。于是,看见的,看不见的;记住的,遗忘了。 生命中,不断地有得到和失落。于是,看不见的,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。 然而,看不见的,是不是就等于不存在?记住的,是不是永远不会消失?

22、我们确实活得艰难,一要承受种种外部的压力,更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中,如果有人向你投以理解的目光,你会感到一种生命的暖意,或许仅有短暂的一瞥,就足以使我感奋不已 23、我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程; 我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影

24、后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪,后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误,所以不要后悔

25、日出东海落西山,愁也一天,喜也一天;遇事不钻牛角尖,人也舒坦,心也舒坦

精典好习惯

01. 不说“不可能“三个字.

02. 凡事第一反应:找方法,而不是找借口.   

03. 遇到挫折对自己大声说:太棒了!   

04. 不说消极的话,不落入消极情绪,一旦出现立即正面处理  

05. 凡事先订立目标,并且尽量制作“梦想版“.   

06. 凡事预先作计划,尽量将目标视觉化.   

07. 工作时间.每一分,每一秒都做有利于生产的事情.   

08. 随时用零碎的时间(如等人、排队等)做零碎的事情.   

09. 守时.   

10. 写下来,不要太依靠脑袋记忆.   

11. 随时记录灵感.   

12. 把重要的观念,方法写下来,并贴起来,以随时提示自己.

13. 走路比平时快30%,走路时脚尖稍用力推进,肢体语言健康有力,不懒 散,萎靡.

14. 每天出门照镜子,给自己一个自信的微笑.   

15. 每天自我反省一次.   

16. 每天坚持一次运动.   

17. 听心跳一分钟,指在做重要事情前,疲劳时,心情烦躁时,紧张时.   

18. 开会坐在前排.   

19. 微笑.   

20. 用心倾听,不打断对方说话.   

21. 说话时声音有力.感觉自己声音似乎能产生有感染力的磁场.

22. 说话之前,先考虑一下对方的感受.   

23. 每天有意识,真诚地赞美别人三次以上.   

24. 及时写感谢卡,哪怕是用便笺写.   

25. 不用训斥,指责的口吻跟别人说话.   

26. 控制住不要让自己做出为自己辩护的第一反应.   

27. 每天做一件“分外事“.  

28. 不管任何方面,每天必须至少做一次“进步一点点“.   

29. 每天提前15分钟上班,推迟30分钟下班.   

30. 每天在下班前用5 分钟的时间做一天的整理工作.   

31. 定期存钱.   

32. 节俭.   

33. 时常运用“头脑风暴“.   

34. 恪守诚信,说到做到.

35. i am the best one!!!


copy from other wan.. :P
meanful....

Friday, June 16, 2006

Saturday, May 27, 2006

action is power....

tired and stress but full of power after attend a classes.. is about 3 day... learn the thing that i never ever thing that i can learn it before...
Action Is Power is our tittle of the camp... first of all.. teacher keep remind us that most of the time we jus always thing about without action and do it... jus keep day dreaming... is that what will get after when learn???? what must action about.. i think i written 100 of my target between 2006-2010... why do this... ask ourselves a question... if we walking in dark without a light leading.... is that we were going to come out from the darkness??? targets is like a light... lead u to a place that u always dreams... u always hope...now refirm to future... if u now dun do it right,... when??? if u dun find out now... when???? write until here first... tml continue... later 7am going to go to attend classes again... now adi 4am.. although i'm stress... but my spirits will keep me going to where i want todo... what i want to learn....

Monday, February 27, 2006

thank you

i would like to share this with my fren... i agree what inside there saying.... thank you all my fren....
http://www.666qq.com/love/zhenxi/default.htm

Friday, February 10, 2006

2 months of exp

what is my last blog??? hehe.. damm long didn't update it adi...this few months.. what m'i doing??? i have a job... about 11day.. at billion semenyin... work as promoter... is quiet happy working at there... know some new fren.. working with someone that always wish to.. learning something that no fouce by ppl... didn't waste my time at house.. but now... after the 11 day... is cny.. waste the hole ang bao money in bai nian and EAT!! haiz.. fat liao.. although this year my cny timetable is very full.... but still get what i wish to do... visit our old class mate.. outr teacher... and fren... now i only know that cny is not bcoz of the ang bao that u wan only go visit them.. is about u still care what ur fren doing now.. thier education.. how was thier life... work or family.. after spm i only feel that cny is so fun...
now valentine day is coming... same as other year... still is a lonely guy finding his the other hand... dunno next year what will come trust... still alone or will i be couple?? haiz.. Oh ya... my best fren had jus beome a couple.. with a guy that she also dunno how much she know him.. lolz... anywhere... i jus can wish them happy forever... i can't do nothing... :p... Oh.. one more big news... my brother jus send to hospital last three day... appenditis.... mang chang yen.. have a operation.. now still staying at hopsital like a dead fish... haiz... is so cham that look of him.. hope him fast healthy back lo.. maybe today coming back... home to rest... hospital is not a good place for us.........!!!! trust me...